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James Gikonyo
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Is self pleasure/masturbation linked to spirituality?

I’ve been enrolling in a Tantra and Tantric Sex course and there is a lot of debate about how self-pleasure is a form of meditation in which the body is able to transcend into the spiritual realm. How true is this and are there any personal experiences here?

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  1. Masturbation is physiological function and body reaction like sweating, hunger, itchy feelings etc. All these when acted upon lead to a sot of satisfaction that gives pleasure. The spiritual part is an option because we can make anything spiritual if we want to. What is your definition of SpiritualiRead more

    Masturbation is physiological function and body reaction like sweating, hunger, itchy feelings etc. All these when acted upon lead to a sot of satisfaction that gives pleasure. The spiritual part is an option because we can make anything spiritual if we want to. What is your definition of Spirituality? That can also change the meaning of all this.

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  2. kindly plug me the tantric sex course ASAP. But I believe sexual pleasure is stress management and tension release!

    kindly plug me the tantric sex course ASAP. But I believe sexual pleasure is stress management and tension release!

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  1. We can talk about all the pleasures of Masturbation but it all comes with one cost which is Addiction. I have friends who have gotten to the point of making self-pleasure a preference to sex with their partners. To make it worse, the instant gratification it gives doesn’t need any work or struggle aRead more

    We can talk about all the pleasures of Masturbation but it all comes with one cost which is Addiction. I have friends who have gotten to the point of making self-pleasure a preference to sex with their partners.

    To make it worse, the instant gratification it gives doesn’t need any work or struggle and only benefits you which undermines the other person in the relationship.

    Believe it or not, there’s an Alcoholics version for Sex & Sexual Fetich Addicts where hundreds f people seek help each day. One of the most common thing people regret here is that they thought they were taking charge of their bodies, little did they know that it was their body that was taking charge of them.

    Of course, the decision is yours as an adult. But just like alcohol or nicotine addicts, sex addiction is too mild to be felt until it is too heavy to be broken. The choice is yours but mine is to enjoy the the thrill of chasing a potential partner, and once I get there, make sure we both share that special gift.

    Call it spirituality or anything else but the main reason behind all the pain, regret and guilt that comes with sexual addiction and masturbation is that the orgasmic pleasure of sex is too deep to be fully experienced by someone on their own without eventually destroying them.

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  2. All forms of sex are spiritual experiences because of the emotions and feelings involved. The depth of this spiritual experience can vary depending on the people involved and how much binded they are. Meditation is just the control of your mind and can be done through many ways including masturbatioRead more

    All forms of sex are spiritual experiences because of the emotions and feelings involved. The depth of this spiritual experience can vary depending on the people involved and how much binded they are. Meditation is just the control of your mind and can be done through many ways including masturbation.

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  1. First things first, where did you enroll for the tantric sex course. I should have a look at it too. So now, I agree that self sexual pleasure is a form of meditation journey… It can be a form of stress management technique, it can be a form of relaxation technique… And it is a spiritually liberatinRead more

    First things first, where did you enroll for the tantric sex course. I should have a look at it too.
    So now, I agree that self sexual pleasure is a form of meditation journey… It can be a form of stress management technique, it can be a form of relaxation technique… And it is a spiritually liberating and stabilising go to strategy for me. Remember that anything if abused can lead to addiction but attaching a fulfilling meaning to self pleasure keeps one’s mind stable. Sometimes, for me, self pleasure is a form of transcendence to another supernatural realm that makes a human one with the universe and so one with the one who owns them, one with God, when employed wisely… An interaction of the physical body with its energy and the energy of the universe… ☺

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  2. Why are we romanticising Masturbation? It is a normal sexual need just like a hug, a cuddle or actual sex. Daniel shows us best in this video 🙂 Call Daniel ??? https://twitter.com/Gitz__/status/1266134808159301632

    Why are we romanticising Masturbation? It is a normal sexual need just like a hug, a cuddle or actual sex. Daniel shows us best in this video 🙂

    Call Daniel ???

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  3. Yes. Spirituality can’t be experienced without having a chaste mind. Its not about masturbation, its about mind set. Thinking of sex, but no jerking, is useless. When we think of sex something inside us just gets unfocused, something agitated. We can feel that in us. And it’s impossible to work on sRead more

    Yes. Spirituality can’t be experienced without having a chaste mind. Its not about masturbation, its about mind set. Thinking of sex, but no jerking, is useless. When we think of sex something inside us just gets unfocused, something agitated. We can feel that in us. And it’s impossible to work on spirituality with such a mind.

    Also please find a proper person for all these. Because now a days people on the net speak whatever they want, they speak whatever they think is right with their half knowledge.

    I realise a proper person is someone who is enlightned, who is not in the process but has reached the end, one who has really seen and experienced. A proper person is not someone who just says, but can really give an approach to realise the supreme. Example Krishna, SwamiVivekanada, prabhupad, most teachings of Marcus Aurelius are also good for a start, etc…..

    There’s more to spirituality than a chaste mind, but trust me chaste mind is among the essentials, among the intial stepping stones and a task in itself to master.

    Process is slow, we can’t just expect to experience spirituality by just reading or asking someone, we have to practice it. Our life style also have to be as needed, and lifestyle changes can be different for each one of us so don’t try to copy.

    In and of itself, masturbation has no affect on spirituality. It’s a physical sensation like good food or getting a massage or a nice nap.

    Those things could become gluttony, or greed, or laziness. Masturbation that involves lust or perversions or thoughts of violent or abusive sex would likely have a negative affect on spirituality.

    Masturbation that involves fantasy of sex with one’s future life partner, and imagining incredibly hot and loving sex acts likely has a positive affect on one’s spirituality. Sex is something most of us look forward too from the time of puberty. Masturbation is a normal developmental part of that.

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  4. It depends on why anyone is doing it in the first place. That mean it is for some people while it isn't for others.

    It depends on why anyone is doing it in the first place. That mean it is for some people while it isn’t for others.

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