The fact that I wear glasses should not automatically make me a nerd. One of the things that make loath the dating game is presumptuous people. Just ask. It will not hurt.
I don’t know if it saves energy not to ask but instead use patterns from the past to judge new experiences. Thinking or saying things as if they are true without any supporting proof can be harmful to organic relationships.
People make assumptions as a results of ignorance as well as experience that they have gone through in the past.
One way our brain saves energy is by making assumptions.We draw on our past experiences to find pattern in how the world works.
As a person of glasses. I resonate with this. I find myself dating macho nne like myself. Preference or Fate? Who knows