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Phanice Wamukota
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Lack of Loyalty or change of priorities?

So a man marries a simple hardworking woman who helps him build his career, home and confidence then ten years down the line he divorces her because she is “still the same”? What is?

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3 Her Answers

  1. Change of priorities and may be there was no genuine love from the beginning.

    Change of priorities and may be there was no genuine love from the beginning.

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  2. It may be either way, the man could have married the woman simply because he knew the lady would help him in the various ways and so after ten years of marriage he no longer wants what the lady is offering and so he changes his priorities, or ten years down the line the man has no loyalty to protectRead more

    It may be either way, the man could have married the woman simply because he knew the lady would help him in the various ways and so after ten years of marriage he no longer wants what the lady is offering and so he changes his priorities, or ten years down the line the man has no loyalty to protect because the lady is still the same and he wants something else apart from a simple hardworking woman.

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  3. Lack of appreciationt and genuine love. Such people use their partners as stepping stones to their success and then after their achievements they get to forget those who helped them rise up the ladder

    Lack of appreciationt and genuine love. Such people use their partners as stepping stones to their success and then after their achievements they get to forget those who helped them rise up the ladder

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  1. There is no being real there if one gets impregnated by other man let that man stick by?????

    There is no being real there if one gets impregnated by other man let that man stick by?????

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  2. I will say it is lack of loyalty. Someone who has helped you grow is worth keeping. Anyone who leaves his/ her patnner in the name of she is still the same is nothing but a joker or a loser. You can help change or rather mould your patner to whoever good person you want him/ her to be, especially onRead more

    I will say it is lack of loyalty. Someone who has helped you grow is worth keeping. Anyone who leaves his/ her patnner in the name of she is still the same is nothing but a joker or a loser. You can help change or rather mould your patner to whoever good person you want him/ her to be, especially one who has helped you grow

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  1. Commitment can be a scary word for a lot of people. Being committed to someone means sharing your life with them. You have to reevaluate your life and priorities. You must think about your spouse and change the way you act. Commitment is important in a marriage. It keeps you both faithful to your maRead more

    Commitment can be a scary word for a lot of people. Being committed to someone means sharing your life with them. You have to reevaluate your life and priorities. You must think about your spouse and change the way you act.

    Commitment is important in a marriage. It keeps you both faithful to your marriage. Over time, commitment will strengthen the marriage, as well.

    However, commitment can wane over time, depending on how your relationship goes. After the honeymoon period of marriage, things can often get complicated. When you start to have children, your marriage can have issues due to the stress involved. Financial problems can also come about, as well as jealousy and intimacy issues that can cause a couple to feel less committed to each other. However, with communication, these issues tend to resolve themselves and couples start to feel more committed to each other again.

    Keep in mind that nobody can change your level of commitment. It is your choice to be committed to someone. If you are married to someone, you should be committed to them. So when you lack commitment, you are not making the other person feel loved or important. You are effectively ruining the marriage. In many cases, this can lead to divorce.

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  2. It is more of priority change. The man no longer values what he saw in her when they started out.

    It is more of priority change. The man no longer values what he saw in her when they started out.

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  3. The true character of a man is shown when he has unlimited access to sex, money and power. Give him these three and he will show himself to you. He was just broke, he didn't love the lady

    The true character of a man is shown when he has unlimited access to sex, money and power. Give him these three and he will show himself to you. He was just broke, he didn’t love the lady

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