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Sheila Nkirote
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Should Love be this complicated?

How do you perceive the distinction between the person you fall in love with and the person you can build a life with, and how might the lack of understanding of this difference contribute to a higher rate of divorce?

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  1. Love should be complicated. That's what makes it love. The passion. The jealously. The insecurity. Imagine being in love with someone who is not obsessed with you? Okay, there's a level that is too much but adding a little more spice and deep desire is necessary to keep the fire buring. UnfortunatelRead more

    Love should be complicated. That’s what makes it love. The passion. The jealously. The insecurity.

    Imagine being in love with someone who is not obsessed with you? Okay, there’s a level that is too much but adding a little more spice and deep desire is necessary to keep the fire buring.

    Unfortunately, this has been a cause of divorce and separation because people respond to the emotions instead of approaching love in a realistic way.

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  1. Heartbreaks are part of life and they are not meant to take away from who you are as a person. The trade off for love is that it could end at anytime and that's okay. Make peace with that and your life won't be anchored on the love you receive from others.

    Heartbreaks are part of life and they are not meant to take away from who you are as a person. The trade off for love is that it could end at anytime and that’s okay. Make peace with that and your life won’t be anchored on the love you receive from others.

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  2. I think you can fall in love with someone and they can be wrong for you. Also, falling and staying in love are two different things. Staying is more of a choice after you've determined that the person you fell for is worth building with. Someone you can build with is the person you can weather the sRead more

    I think you can fall in love with someone and they can be wrong for you. Also, falling and staying in love are two different things. Staying is more of a choice after you’ve determined that the person you fell for is worth building with. Someone you can build with is the person you can weather the storm with. There will be ups and downs but when you can ‘fight’ with the person you build with, you fight for each other, on the same team, with the same goal.

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2 Him Answers

  1. Starting a relationship with a mature person who genuinely loves you and wants the best for you can save lots of potential hurt in future just because of how much they respect and love you. Choose the right person beyond things like looks and money for better chances of real love but heri tulie kwaRead more

    Starting a relationship with a mature person who genuinely loves you and wants the best for you can save lots of potential hurt in future just because of how much they respect and love you. Choose the right person beyond things like looks and money for better chances of real love but heri tulie kwa range rover kuliko tucheke kwa boda boda.

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  2. most things in life are what you make them. same for love it's different for everyone so it is what YOU make it

    most things in life are what you make them. same for love it’s different for everyone so it is what YOU make it

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  1. love shouldn't be complicated,love should be from the bottom of your heart. when you love someone who values you, expect the same energy from the other person. I also do advocate for dating someone who has close to similar characters as you for easier understanding of each other too

    love shouldn’t be complicated,love should be from the bottom of your heart. when you love someone who values you, expect the same energy from the other person. I also do advocate for dating someone who has close to similar characters as you for easier understanding of each other too

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  2. Love is supposed to be a beautiful thing. If what we have is one sided or short term, we can't call it love. The only way you know I is really love is when it lasts forever which is ironic since you can only know after spending eternity or at least your life with someone.

    Love is supposed to be a beautiful thing. If what we have is one sided or short term, we can’t call it love. The only way you know I is really love is when it lasts forever which is ironic since you can only know after spending eternity or at least your life with someone.

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  3. Love should be complicated. That's what makes it love. The passion. The jealously. The insecurity. Imagine being in love with someone who is not obsessed with you? Okay, there's a level that is too much but adding a little more spice and deep desire is necessary to keep the fire buring. UnfortunatelRead more

    Love should be complicated. That’s what makes it love. The passion. The jealously. The insecurity.

    Imagine being in love with someone who is not obsessed with you? Okay, there’s a level that is too much but adding a little more spice and deep desire is necessary to keep the fire buring.

    Unfortunately, this has been a cause of divorce and separation because people respond to the emotions instead of approaching love in a realistic way.

    See less