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Sandra Faith
Nyati

Do guys settle?

I have friends like, a lot of friends. Some are guys that are married, in a relationship (both serious and casual) others are dating. So a relationship topic cannot miss or someone brings uo their mamaa or something. Sadly, most of the talks or comments rather are usually threatening or full of fear. Like, she’s doesn’t like this or she’s full of drama, she shouts alot or she’s just not the understanding type. These talks are so common, ask around. This makes me wonder, do guys settle on anything in a skirt, provided it’s a female?
If you ask the church brothers, they’re having the perfect marriage, perfect homes, perfect relationships ; so who’s lying??

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89.47%Yes ( 17 voters )
10.53%No ( 2 voters )
Based On 19 Votes

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1 Her Answer

  1. Some settle after pressure and coercion while other just decide to because of social pressure. I know people who only settled down after the girlfriend set an ultimatum.

    Some settle after pressure and coercion while other just decide to because of social pressure. I know people who only settled down after the girlfriend set an ultimatum.

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2 Him Answers

  1. Many men will settle out of comfort,fear, or both.In their mind,something is better than nothing.

    Many men will settle out of comfort,fear, or both.In their mind,something is better than nothing.

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  2. It mostly has everything to do with pressure from family and society. The rush to get married so as to impress the two groups makes most men make wrong choices

    It mostly has everything to do with pressure from family and society. The rush to get married so as to impress the two groups makes most men make wrong choices

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1 Answer

  1. we look for submissive partners we therefore don't settle for less

    we look for submissive partners we therefore don’t settle for less

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