If you could go back and hype up your younger self what would you tell them to just go for? It might be something you’re doing now, or something you still want to revisit. Either way, that version of you could probably use the pep talk. And so could someone else reading this.
That’s a beautiful and surprisingly tender question, isn’t it? It invites us to pause and listen to the voice we might have needed when we were younger—before life piled on expectations or fear or the quiet weight of doubt. What would I go back and tell that earlier self? I think I’d want to say: JuRead more
That’s a beautiful and surprisingly tender question, isn’t it? It invites us to pause and listen to the voice we might have needed when we were younger—before life piled on expectations or fear or the quiet weight of doubt. What would I go back and tell that earlier self? I think I’d want to say: Just start. You don’t need to be perfect, or ready, or even especially confident. You just need to begin. The rest unfolds when you give yourself permission to be in motion. And for me, that idea applies most deeply to writing—not because it’s the only thing that matters, but because it’s something I held close for years, worrying whether I had anything truly worthwhile to say.
What often lies beneath a question like this is the ache of hesitation—the tug-of-war between desire and self-doubt. Most of us grow up with dreams or instincts we gradually press down, not because they weren’t real, but because we didn’t know how to follow them without permission. So much of our early life is about being good at what we’re told to be good at, rather than exploring who we might become if we chased something that felt alive in us. That younger version of ourselves—who maybe whispered dreams aloud only in quiet moments—could use some reassurance that uncertainty isn’t a stop sign. It’s part of the path.
And maybe someone out there today is sitting with that same quiet pull. Whether it’s art, love, travel, activism, or
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