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  1. Eating meals together. We waited for everyone so we can start eating. It was common practice to make calls to check how far people are as soon as meals got ready. This translated to always calling people to check up on them even when they weren't home because you thought of them every time you sat dRead more

    Eating meals together. We waited for everyone so we can start eating. It was common practice to make calls to check how far people are as soon as meals got ready. This translated to always calling people to check up on them even when they weren’t home because you thought of them every time you sat down for a meal. Now, as an adult, seating down for a meal is an integral part of bonding….food is my love language 😂

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  2. Brenda Gutu
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    Brenda Gutu Simba Doctorate Student of Clinical Psychology
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    Interesting question! ☺ I repressed my several desires because of different reasons. Withheld expressing sexual desires because of sexualization of sin. The way religion is designed I was made to feel sooooo wrong even just thinking a tiny sensual thought because I thought God would be angry with meRead more

    Interesting question! ☺

    I repressed my several desires because of different reasons.

    Withheld expressing sexual desires because of sexualization of sin. The way religion is designed I was made to feel sooooo wrong even just thinking a tiny sensual thought because I thought God would be angry with me and I would burn in eternal fire. Overtime, reconciling with myself about my own understanding of God, I have found freedom in expressing myself sexually without fear of how the high Deity sees me! It is how I see myself that matters. After all I realized that sex, food, shelter and clothing are all basic needs. So we could say that at a younger age where my moral development as a human being was taking shape, I judged myself too harshly so that others would not have a chance to judge me. So age and how one has been socialised definitely influence how we view sex and loving sexual relationships.

    I am glad to say I found sexual freedom!

    I also withheld from walking with a totally shaven head because I wondered, “how would they look at me? Would they criticise me?” So one day by accident the barber who was experiencing alcohol withdrawal symptoms (his hands were severely shaking and I still trusted him to cut my hair nicely); messed up a small part in the middle of my afro! I had to clean shave the whole head yet I was going to a huge conference! I gathered all my courage, dressed up professionally and hot for the occasion and showed up to the conference for the three days, with my head held high! I had an option to nicely do a turban but I took that as an opportunity to face the beautiful shiny shaven head in the mirror and stand among other human beings like hell yeah! I deserve to be here too! 😂

    Realized that repressing makes me a very angry soul so I have learned to stay with open arms to receive all the goodness that the universe has to offer.

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  3. Actually, when I heard about it, the first thing that cross my mind was they are just looking for means of making money into the government pocket. Also maybe they want to reduce the number of people that do those things because I have not seen any good reasons to collect tax from them. Besides is nRead more

    Actually, when I heard about it, the first thing that cross my mind was they are just looking for means of making money into the government pocket. Also maybe they want to reduce the number of people that do those things because I have not seen any good reasons to collect tax from them. Besides is not affecting the environment.

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  4. I very much believe so. In order to meet someone's emotional needs, you need to understand what connects to them in terms of love. It is important to understand the love language of your partner in order to be in sync as to fulfilling each other's expectations

    I very much believe so. In order to meet someone’s emotional needs, you need to understand what connects to them in terms of love. It is important to understand the love language of your partner in order to be in sync as to fulfilling each other’s expectations

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  5. To address such matter will mean we get really logical about the stats. 1. What are the numbers 2. What are the environment is takes place 3. What are the repeating patterns of such incidents 4. Who are the perpetrator? 5. What are the ages , motivations and spaces of this behaviors by these perpetrRead more

    To address such matter will mean we get really logical about the stats.

    1. What are the numbers
    2. What are the environment is takes place
    3. What are the repeating patterns of such incidents
    4. Who are the perpetrator?
    5. What are the ages , motivations and spaces of this behaviors by these perpetrators?

    When we can map out this, then we can start crafting a solution.

    An example; if this behavior happens more in marriage ; then we can craft out solutions that address that specific space with laws that protect while telling women to review their reasons for marriage.

    This things are simple once first, the victim is ready to be protected, take more protective measures and contribute to eradicating the problem without sentiments.

    When it comes to the women space. I have grown to be more reserved knowing that a large number of women and girls are contributors of their own victimhood & femcide.

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  6. bella
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    Depends on the day. when I'm at home during the evening news, I will watch highlights and decide if the news is worth watching, most of the time it isn't! But I mostly follow news outlets on twitter so that's where I get my news from!

    Depends on the day. when I’m at home during the evening news, I will watch highlights and decide if the news is worth watching, most of the time it isn’t! But I mostly follow news outlets on twitter so that’s where I get my news from!

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  7. There is no privacy in the internet of today. The only way to stay private is to use a brick phone or get off the grid which is more expensive than the cost of your digital print. The world is so dependent and tied to technology that cutting yourself off may end up being more detrimental. Strict meaRead more

    There is no privacy in the internet of today. The only way to stay private is to use a brick phone or get off the grid which is more expensive than the cost of your digital print. The world is so dependent and tied to technology that cutting yourself off may end up being more detrimental. Strict measures need to be taken on how much and how fast technology should be adapted.

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  8. Prince Musau Official
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    I was a military officer for around 8 years. The training reconfigures one's DNA I guess. That said, working in the military is not a joke. I have lost friends. I have survived ambushes where my closest friend died. I have been in a gunfire situation for close to 8 hours nonstop. I have been in a faRead more

    I was a military officer for around 8 years. The training reconfigures one’s DNA I guess. That said, working in the military is not a joke. I have lost friends. I have survived ambushes where my closest friend died. I have been in a gunfire situation for close to 8 hours nonstop. I have been in a faulty aircraft which almost took our lives.

    When you see a military officer saunter into a bar, sit down at the corner by himself and order a cold drink, give that man respect.

    I have serialized my life in the military in a book titled TALES OF THE WARFRONT. You can get it and read about experiences you may not think are possible

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  9. I personally have fantasized about war and how unlimited it will be to navigate and explore various countries without the usual worry about settling, Jobs, etc. I feel it would not be necessary to hide if it's not a virus breakout type of war or nuclear gas. I personally will only have made sure I hRead more

    I personally have fantasized about war and how unlimited it will be to navigate and explore various countries without the usual worry about settling, Jobs, etc.

    I feel it would not be necessary to hide if it’s not a virus breakout type of war or nuclear gas.

    I personally will only have made sure I have a lot of life skills to enable me sustain myself. That been said.

    For me the navy is sure one place to seek refuge

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  10. Nempy
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    In the current era, there is a paradigm shift in that many people are focusing more on digital work compared to the past. and Technology has played a key role in that. Technological growth has promoted businesses in running their tasks smoothly and performing well than ever before.

    In the current era, there is a paradigm shift in that many people are focusing more on digital work compared to the past. and Technology has played a key role in that. Technological growth has promoted businesses in running their tasks smoothly and performing well than ever before.

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  11. Well, I feel like this is mostly higher level of powerplay and they will not scrap off the debt. The harsh realities of our lives. https://youtu.be/AfnruW7yERA

    Well, I feel like this is mostly higher level of powerplay and they will not scrap off the debt.
    The harsh realities of our lives.

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  12. Digital Bimpe
    Digital Bimpe Kifaru Digital Business Entrepreneur

    Bucket list Is to make more sales and have a beautiful family and build an empire with my family And finish reading all the romance book , travel the world

    Bucket list

    Is to make more sales and have a beautiful family and build an empire with my family

    And finish reading all the romance book , travel the world

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  13. Brenda Gutu
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    Brenda Gutu Simba Doctorate Student of Clinical Psychology
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    This conversation is very important. What I know is that religion has been used as a tool to justify the oppression of others who are unlike us. And stemming from cultural beliefs and reinforced by religion, people who are transgender, intersex, or basically on the LGBTQIA+ spectrum have been ignoreRead more

    This conversation is very important. What I know is that religion has been used as a tool to justify the oppression of others who are unlike us. And stemming from cultural beliefs and reinforced by religion, people who are transgender, intersex, or basically on the LGBTQIA+ spectrum have been ignored, overlooked and are a hidden population obviously why? Discrimination.

    I believe it begins with us, to create awareness by displaying our pronouns in this platform then we can begin to sensitize ourselves among us in this platform then we can learn to make it a part of our conversations in our day to day life.

    For example by asking, “How do you identify yourself? How would you prefer to be addressed? Rather, what are your pronouns?”

    People might give the, “Huh” expression, but that is an opportunity to explain more… Like…

    “I identify as she/her/hers, what are your pronouns?”

    Well, it should be a natural conversation, not forceful. People can choose to identify themselves or not depending on how comfortable a person is with you.

    One time, a person chose to confide in me that they prefer to identify as she, her, they; but, as she, her, hers with strangers. I appreciate that kind of discourse because it shows that people have to feel a sense of trust to identify their pronouns to another person or group.

    Also education around this is important because some people might identify as she, her, hers but their sexual orientation is bi for example. It is not upto us to judge and fill in other people’s pronouns, it is up to them. Their identity.

    I believe that education around sexuality beyond the binary is a conversation that many people in Africa are demonizing. You are right. Religion is one of the factors. Used to oppress others. ‘We are better than them’, ‘We are holier than them’, ‘They will burn in eternal fire’, ‘We are as pure and white as snow’, Blah Blah Blah…. Religion is a tool of oppression period.

    What I know is that I respect people equally, be you the President of the United States, be you the child in the room, be you the drunkard roaming the streets, be you the homeless person in the street, be you Jesus of Nazareth, I respect people equally because the higher power I believe in sees all as equals and LOVE as the purest form of RELIGION.

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  14. someone who is always there with you, someone who is there for you when you need them not necessarily financially but even at times someone who you can talk to without them judging you or making you feel terrible about yourself but Family doesn't always have to be blood relatives. there's family thaRead more

    someone who is always there with you, someone who is there for you when you need them not necessarily financially but even at times someone who you can talk to without them judging you or making you feel terrible about yourself
    but Family doesn’t always have to be blood relatives. there’s family that you meet as you grow older

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  15. unlike anything I expected, I was awake by 4am and didn't go to work, I home trying to find the value of X. I am not making much progress 😅

    unlike anything I expected,
    I was awake by 4am and didn’t go to work,
    I home trying to find the value of X.
    I am not making much progress 😅

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  16. I do not understand the hype surrounding Valentine's Day. I'm yet to research the history of Valentine's Day but until then do not pressure yourself with a single-day celebration if you cannot afford it. But make sure you appreciate your signifact other.

    I do not understand the hype surrounding Valentine’s Day. I’m yet to research the history of Valentine’s Day but until then do not pressure yourself with a single-day celebration if you cannot afford it. But make sure you appreciate your signifact other.

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  17. Indeed just as put, there are numerous challenges that interracial couples go through. To start with, language barrier is such an underrated issue until one can’t find the right words to communicate except for his/her native language or mother tongue. Also, trying to get your partner to blend in witRead more

    Indeed just as put, there are numerous challenges that interracial couples go through. To start with, language barrier is such an underrated issue until one can’t find the right words to communicate except for his/her native language or mother tongue.
    Also, trying to get your partner to blend in with you small circle of friends also proves to be a task, especially if they have different experiences and perspective when it comes to that said race.

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  18. From as long ago as the people of Kibera were promised better housing through a high-rise project, that has since stalled then failed, there has always been a need to do housing right. Politicians will always be against basic human dignity if it threatens thier intdrests and pockets for them.

    From as long ago as the people of Kibera were promised better housing through a high-rise project, that has since stalled then failed, there has always been a need to do housing right. Politicians will always be against basic human dignity if it threatens thier intdrests and pockets for them.

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  19. If I had the money I would have multiple residences across the world. With no cap to the money, that would be every country, so I may experience different cultures outside the context of news a d television. I would be a real nomad. Permanent locations are for people who can more travel because of wRead more

    If I had the money I would have multiple residences across the world. With no cap to the money, that would be every country, so I may experience different cultures outside the context of news a d television. I would be a real nomad. Permanent locations are for people who can more travel because of work or for people who do not have enough money for luxury travel.

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  20. Brenda Gutu
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    Brenda Gutu Simba Doctorate Student of Clinical Psychology
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    Here’s the thing, in the past one month, every time I touch the door knob, the locker knob, the window knob, I keep getting zapped by this extraordinary amount of static electricity. I should also tell you that those houses with metallic shower knobs are just not for me, I will get real electric shoRead more

    Here’s the thing, in the past one month, every time I touch the door knob, the locker knob, the window knob, I keep getting zapped by this extraordinary amount of static electricity. I should also tell you that those houses with metallic shower knobs are just not for me, I will get real electric shock from those and other people think I am imagining things. For the past year and more so recently, sometimes I reach out to some people with my hands and we end up zapping… Sometimes it is very awkward.
    The rubber could explain it, but I am curious what else one can wear indoors. Sometimes they say to wear cotton socks, sometimes they say avoid dragging your feet on the ground when walking; it causes friction and hence build up of ions…
    Well, I am no expert but I think it helps to walk barefoot on the soil or grass.
    Your question was about absorbing energy, my answer is about letting out negative energy into the earth so that we are deionized? Gosh I hope I used the correct terminology here! But seriously, the earth gives us good vibrations too, when we just connect the soles of our feet to the soil. I miss that feeling. It’s a moment to appreciate our aliveness and our oneness with the universe.

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  21. For me l usually do a number of activities to deal with loneliness which include: watch movies, listening to music, enrol to free courses online and also l do online jobs .

    For me l usually do a number of activities to deal with loneliness which include: watch movies, listening to music, enrol to free courses online and also l do online jobs .

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    I think I just shelved that anxiety after taking the jabs. I’m due for a booster shot this month, and it’s not a subconscious kind of anxiety when that time is nearing now. Obviously, the worry of whether I made the right decision taking the jab is always looming. I however am an optimist, and so faRead more

    I think I just shelved that anxiety after taking the jabs. I’m due for a booster shot this month, and it’s not a subconscious kind of anxiety when that time is nearing now. Obviously, the worry of whether I made the right decision taking the jab is always looming.
    I however am an optimist, and so far, my whole being seemed to have taken it well.

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  23. I wouldn't say encourage them to have safe sex, but educate them on the meaning of sex and its consequences. If more youngsters were taught what sex is really about, less people would do it. Until they were psychologically and emotionally ready.

    I wouldn’t say encourage them to have safe sex, but educate them on the meaning of sex and its consequences. If more youngsters were taught what sex is really about, less people would do it. Until they were psychologically and emotionally ready.

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  24. There has been an increase in teenage pregnancies in Kenya and measures have been put into practice to help reduce this. 1. Sex education in schools to help teenagers know about responsible sexual behaviour and avoid being reckless due to ignorance. 2. Community programs involving contraceptive counRead more

    There has been an increase in teenage pregnancies in Kenya and measures have been put into practice to help reduce this.
    1. Sex education in schools to help teenagers know about responsible sexual behaviour and avoid being reckless due to ignorance.
    2. Community programs involving contraceptive counseling.
    3. Educating teenagers in how to prevent unwanted pregnancies and availing preventive resources to them.
    These are just but some of the ways our country is dealing with teenage pregnancies.

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  25. Strong work ethic is crucial for a great artist i believe as much as good communication skills.

    Strong work ethic is crucial for a great artist i believe as much as good communication skills.

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  26. tamaduni na mila huenda zikibadilika na kwa dunia ya kisasa hauezi futa tamaduni za kale bila kujikaanga, kizazi cha dotcom kinatengeneza tamaduni mpya kulingana na dunia inavyosonga ila kizazi hiki shida ni yakwamba hakizingatii vitu vya maana katika jamii. wanaprioritise mambo ya mapenzi, raha naRead more

    tamaduni na mila huenda zikibadilika na kwa dunia ya kisasa hauezi futa tamaduni za kale bila kujikaanga, kizazi cha dotcom kinatengeneza tamaduni mpya kulingana na dunia inavyosonga ila kizazi hiki shida ni yakwamba hakizingatii vitu vya maana katika jamii. wanaprioritise mambo ya mapenzi, raha na kujisaidia kibinafsi sio kama kizazi cha kitambo waliokua wanatafuta njia tofauti za kujiboresha na kuboresha jamii kwa ujumla.
    lakini hauezi laumu kizazi cha dotcom kwani dunia pia imebadilika watu waliokua wakiongoza jamii enzi za kale pia wamebadilika siku izi unapata wazee ndio wapyoro na wenye ubinafsi zaidi. wanaweka mfano mbaya kwa vijana wa kizazi kipya.

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  27. Nature is very alive just not in the big cities and metropolitan areas. That said, the rate at which we are eating into it is very astonishing. Many cities don't even have green parks and all the concrete leads to a general blanket of depression and low energy.

    Nature is very alive just not in the big cities and metropolitan areas. That said, the rate at which we are eating into it is very astonishing. Many cities don’t even have green parks and all the concrete leads to a general blanket of depression and low energy.

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  28. sometimes it may be a pattern of events that repeat itself and sparks your nostalgia

    sometimes it may be a pattern of events that repeat itself and sparks your nostalgia

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  29. There's something beautiful about the preteen years where you are partly independent yet puberty has not yet set in. No bills to worry about, just pure child play and a very personalised view of the world. Also losts of innocence with regards to knowledge and experiences. At that age of around 7 toRead more

    There’s something beautiful about the preteen years where you are partly independent yet puberty has not yet set in. No bills to worry about, just pure child play and a very personalised view of the world. Also losts of innocence with regards to knowledge and experiences. At that age of around 7 to 12, the world is at your footsteps. That’s the age I envy the most.

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  30. Nempy
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    To have means to have strong belief that you have already achieved what you are praying about. you might not achieve in good times, but delay does not mean denial. We should continue having faith in God in all circumstances.Additionally, James 2:17 says that faith without actions is dead

    To have means to have strong belief that you have already achieved what you are praying about. you might not achieve in good times, but delay does not mean denial. We should continue having faith in God in all circumstances.Additionally, James 2:17 says that faith without actions is dead

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  31. Nempy
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    Respect should be earned, and it's two way respect other people and they will respect you as well.

    Respect should be earned, and it’s two way respect other people and they will respect you as well.

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  32. 1. Personal Awareness: In order to become a social media marketer you need a clear understanding of your core strengths and weaknesses (Self awareness) in order to win. 2. Passion: It becomes easy to succeed in social media marketing when individuals concentrate on subjects and topics where they areRead more

    1. Personal Awareness: In order to become a social media marketer you need a clear understanding of your core strengths and weaknesses (Self awareness) in order to win.
    2. Passion: It becomes easy to succeed in social media marketing when individuals concentrate on subjects and topics where they are passionate.
    3. Strong Networking Skills
    4. Good written and oral communication skills.

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    Most young people don't know what to give or expect in a relationship except for financial support and sex for that matter. Most guys under 30 years have not yet stabilised financially but are expected to make ends meet and at the same time support their partner. When they have a misunderstanding thRead more

    Most young people don’t know what to give or expect in a relationship except for financial support and sex for that matter. Most guys under 30 years have not yet stabilised financially but are expected to make ends meet and at the same time support their partner. When they have a misunderstanding they start weighing out and realising that besides intimacy they are gaining nothing more from each other. And ladies on the other hand move where they are benefiting financially (though not all). We should be looking at this differently. Find a friend first then a partner would be safe to have in them. Find someone who you can build a life with. Someone you can talk life, business etc. Someone who helps you fix yourself and not one who overlooks them. Learn from each other, have constructive relationships. Also young people shouldn’t take breaking up as the first solution instead of staying and fixing what’s broken. Working things out sometimes is better than walking out because how many times will you be walking out? Not that one should stay in a toxic relationship…

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  34. In Kenya, more than 1100 people died during the 2007 post-election violence. According, to Kenya National Human Rights Commission, 37 people died during the post-election chaos witnessed between August 9 and 15 2017. However, despite well-done reports and recommendations by different commissions, thRead more

    In Kenya, more than 1100 people died during the 2007 post-election violence. According, to Kenya National Human Rights Commission, 37 people died during the post-election chaos witnessed between August 9 and 15 2017.

    However, despite well-done reports and recommendations by different commissions, the reports have not been implemented. Nevertheless, Kenya can learn a few lessons from the Rwanda genocide that left the nation a different nation.

    The first lesson is the importance of remembrance itself. Remembrance shapes the future and influences how we think and what we do. The exclusion of many of Kenya’s memories is likely to hinder reconciliation, justice, and democracy and undermine durable peace. In remembering, we should think about what we can do to prevent such heinous human rights violations from happening.

    The second lesson is the danger of tribalism perpetuated by political leaders. It is important for citizens to resist hate fuelled politics where most leaders in Kenya appeal to people of their own tribes when they want support, leveraging tribes when they bargain for positions in government. Kenya and other African countries must counter-politics of ethnicity that promotes hate and violence.

    Lastly, the importance of the citizens to stand for fellow citizens. It is only through the efforts of people coming together that human rights will continue to be protected.

    Indeed, many other countries should take the lessons and progressively work on being one, bound by endearment, difficult a task as it might seem.

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  35. Whew. I have several, but here are my best two: “You will find that if you look for the light, you can often find it. But if you look for the dark, that is all you will ever see.” Uncle Iroh. “And that’s the problem with people who mean everything they say. They think everyone else does too.” KhaledRead more

    Whew. I have several, but here are my best two:

    “You will find that if you look for the light, you can often find it. But if you look for the dark, that is all you will ever see.” Uncle Iroh.

    “And that’s the problem with people who mean everything they say. They think everyone else does too.” Khaled Hosseini – The Kite Runner.

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  36. For most people, who they are and the reason they do what they do is greatly contributed by the environment they grew up in. Children will always emulate their parent’s behaviors and thus greatly influenced by how they’re brought up. They way their parents relate with each other and how they relateRead more

    For most people, who they are and the reason they do what they do is greatly contributed by the environment they grew up in. Children will always emulate their parent’s behaviors and thus greatly influenced by how they’re brought up.

    They way their parents relate with each other and how they relate with others will most probably reflect on their relationships.

    So basically, how they’re brought up influences them alot, then after they’re grown up, they may either depart or stick depending with their circumstances

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  37. Christianity is an important world religion that stems from the life, teachings, and death of Jesus. Roman Catholicism is the largest of the three major branches of Christianity. Thus, all Roman Catholics are Christian, but not all Christians are Roman Catholic.

    Christianity is an important world religion that stems from the life, teachings, and death of Jesus. Roman Catholicism is the largest of the three major branches of Christianity. Thus, all Roman Catholics are Christian, but not all Christians are Roman Catholic.

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  38. As an Artist(an all rounded one) i find joy in creating absolutely anything. be it Music,Art being around creatives and being my own kind of creative gives me satisfaction whenever i create and deliver. I do it because i love to do it. because i find joy in it and it takes me away from reality's andRead more

    As an Artist(an all rounded one) i find joy in creating absolutely anything. be it Music,Art being around creatives and being my own kind of creative gives me satisfaction whenever i create and deliver. I do it because i love to do it. because i find joy in it and it takes me away from reality’s and into a whole entity that not many can.

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  39. My opinion, most definitely. Growth comes with experience and thus understanding. An example, when young, my Dad was my super hero, not that he isn’t but back then, i believed there was nothing he couldn’t handle. Now, he’s my hero because of the scars i see and the battles he keeps winning behind tRead more

    My opinion, most definitely. Growth comes with experience and thus understanding. An example, when young, my Dad was my super hero, not that he isn’t but back then, i believed there was nothing he couldn’t handle. Now, he’s my hero because of the scars i see and the battles he keeps winning behind the flaws.
    So yeah, you get to see things differently

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  40. Brenda Gutu
    Brenda Gutu Simba Doctorate Student of Clinical Psychology

    I don't believe so. I am personally not a traditional person anymore because I have found freedom in charting my own path. Most people would think I'm radicalized but if I am so be it. What has radicalized me? LOVE. I believe that as long as two people respect and love each other and that friendshipRead more

    I don’t believe so. I am personally not a traditional person anymore because I have found freedom in charting my own path. Most people would think I’m radicalized but if I am so be it. What has radicalized me? LOVE.
    I believe that as long as two people respect and love each other and that friendship is at the core of their relationship, then gender roles can be traversed and people can decide to help each other out as long as people keep the channels of communication open. I realized that if I stick to the societal rules and bou diaries then I might miss out on really good people just because they have not.

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  41. I struggle saying no to people I really love and care about. Even when logic suggests otherwise, my soft spot for people I love makes me see beyond that. It can be unhealthy when these people don't have a boundary but when they are also there for you and would do the same, it doesn't even matter.

    I struggle saying no to people I really love and care about. Even when logic suggests otherwise, my soft spot for people I love makes me see beyond that. It can be unhealthy when these people don’t have a boundary but when they are also there for you and would do the same, it doesn’t even matter.

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    Money is a unit of exchange, but it can also be much more or much less than that, depending on who is handling it. For some it is an investment, for others it is security, for others it is a storage of value, for many more it is a way to get by from one day to another. We may hold the same amount ofRead more

    Money is a unit of exchange, but it can also be much more or much less than that, depending on who is handling it. For some it is an investment, for others it is security, for others it is a storage of value, for many more it is a way to get by from one day to another. We may hold the same amount of money but the meaning we attach to it determines what it does for us in return.

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  43. Reporting to HR may not always work. You could start by reaching out to a close friend and seeking help from an outside aythoroty like the police or an organisation that specificaly deals with this. Making sure you have some evidence of the harassment is an added advantage, this could be an audio orRead more

    Reporting to HR may not always work. You could start by reaching out to a close friend and seeking help from an outside aythoroty like the police or an organisation that specificaly deals with this. Making sure you have some evidence of the harassment is an added advantage, this could be an audio or video recording or a reliable witness who will stand by you and their word. Find out if there’s another person going through the same and do a joint report. It is quite sad that after going through abuse you have to do all this just to protect yourself and your work. However there’s no work or employment that is worth abuse. You are better off without a job than in an abusive environment. With the recent cases of femicide and violence, your lufe could be at risk. The most drastic and safe move would be to up and leave though you’ll have to plan on how you to meet your needs after an abrupt loss of work.

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  44. An intelligent person acknowledge that things beyond book smarts matter in the real world, therefore intelligent people are likely to be the most attentive when it comes to their own behavior. Intelligent people tend to keep their thoughts and views in check.

    An intelligent person acknowledge that things beyond book smarts matter in the real world, therefore intelligent people are likely to be the most attentive when it comes to their own behavior. Intelligent people tend to keep their thoughts and views in check.

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  45. Digital Bimpe
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    Digital Bimpe Kifaru Digital Business Entrepreneur

    Menial jobs I believe Mechanical jobs , farming jobs and others But they can implement the use of ai in their research work but can’t be stolen

    Menial jobs I believe

    Mechanical jobs , farming jobs and others

    But they can implement the use of ai in their research work but can’t be stolen

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  46. I think the system is not the problem, the issue is with the leadership, when you have good leaders they will be able to work and solve the problems that their countries are facing, additionally with good leadership, leaders will put good and working system that will support countries' development.

    I think the system is not the problem, the issue is with the leadership, when you have good leaders they will be able to work and solve the problems that their countries are facing, additionally with good leadership, leaders will put good and working system that will support countries’ development.

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  47. Nempy
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    You can pray for her/him, and you can also consider counseling that might help.

    You can pray for her/him, and you can also consider counseling that might help.

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  48. I think some teenagers lack parental guidance, and they do not have sufficient information on how to protect themselves, and they end up being victims.

    I think some teenagers lack parental guidance, and they do not have sufficient information on how to protect themselves, and they end up being victims.

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  49. The government is not doing enough to solve the issue of unemployment, the government should invest more in building industries to create employment, and also it should put strict measures to cub corruption.

    The government is not doing enough to solve the issue of unemployment, the government should invest more in building industries to create employment, and also it should put strict measures to cub corruption.

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