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  1. General kindness. How your partner treats other people, especially those who dont particularly add any value to them, like waitstaff, gatepeople, taxi conductors, and so forth, tells so much about who they really are or will be with you after the honeymoon is over.

    General kindness. How your partner treats other people, especially those who dont particularly add any value to them, like waitstaff, gatepeople, taxi conductors, and so forth, tells so much about who they really are or will be with you after the honeymoon is over.

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  2. A.B.C. Abstainance: moreso for teenagers who have no business having sex. Be faithful: choose and stay with one partner. multiple sex partners increase your risks of infection and make STIs to spread faster. Condomize: it is not 100% safe but helps reduce chances of both pregnancy and sexually transRead more

    A.B.C.

    Abstainance: moreso for teenagers who have no business having sex.

    Be faithful: choose and stay with one partner. multiple sex partners increase your risks of infection and make STIs to spread faster.

    Condomize: it is not 100% safe but helps reduce chances of both pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.

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    I don't fully believe in soul mates but I believe in choosing someone who can eventually grow into the idea of a soul mate for you. After spending enough time with a particular person, they get you and you get them. You even start looking like each other and develop similar interests. Though it mayRead more

    I don’t fully believe in soul mates but I believe in choosing someone who can eventually grow into the idea of a soul mate for you. After spending enough time with a particular person, they get you and you get them. You even start looking like each other and develop similar interests. Though it may take a very long time, it happens and you never see it coming until your souls are tied. One problem with love today is that people want instant results and Holywood had really skewed our idea of ideal relationships so patience is lost in the process and we don’t wait enough to build into each other like the soul mates we are meant to be.

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  4. Heres the perfect sleep recipe: make sure you're on a full tummy after eating your favourite meal. If possible, also make sure it rains cats and dogs. Sometimes, adding sex to this list helps more. You will sleep like a baby.

    Heres the perfect sleep recipe: make sure you’re on a full tummy after eating your favourite meal. If possible, also make sure it rains cats and dogs. Sometimes, adding sex to this list helps more. You will sleep like a baby.

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  5. I would spend it and my time with the people I love and use the rest of it to help the unfortunate. It is said that rich people are blinded and always seek to get more and more and more. It never ends. I hope to be content and happy when I get to that level.

    I would spend it and my time with the people I love and use the rest of it to help the unfortunate. It is said that rich people are blinded and always seek to get more and more and more. It never ends. I hope to be content and happy when I get to that level.

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  6. The correct question should be what does your man appreciate the most or love. When we copy everything that we see on TV and media we end up doing the same and expecting people to react and respond like we saw or read on media. Get to know your man and find out what he loves. Gift him things that heRead more

    The correct question should be what does your man appreciate the most or love. When we copy everything that we see on TV and media we end up doing the same and expecting people to react and respond like we saw or read on media. Get to know your man and find out what he loves. Gift him things that he will cherish and hold dear. If flowers work for him, then well and good. Just be sure that it is because he is really into them and not because they came from you.

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  7. For you to be a great artist you have to be able to make timeless art that speaks to people across generations and cultures and geographical boundaries. Many artists today create content for that instant hit and fame or follow popular fads and trends which dilute their work and remove the aspect ofRead more

    For you to be a great artist you have to be able to make timeless art that speaks to people across generations and cultures and geographical boundaries. Many artists today create content for that instant hit and fame or follow popular fads and trends which dilute their work and remove the aspect of originality no mater how good they are.

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    The purpose of life is to find purpose in your life. No one can tell you the purpose of life because everyone has a different purpose. What is purposeful for one person may not be for another.

    The purpose of life is to find purpose in your life. No one can tell you the purpose of life because everyone has a different purpose. What is purposeful for one person may not be for another.

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  9. Social media is my primary source of news. I sometimes watch regular cable news and find it redundant because of how it is curated. News online comes to me based on the journalists and newsrooms I follow.

    Social media is my primary source of news. I sometimes watch regular cable news and find it redundant because of how it is curated. News online comes to me based on the journalists and newsrooms I follow.

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  10. I don't really know what love is but baby don't hurt me no more!!! It is said that you only find out the true meaning of love after your first breakup.

    I don’t really know what love is but baby don’t hurt me no more!!! It is said that you only find out the true meaning of love after your first breakup.

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  11. I struggle saying no to people I really love and care about. Even when logic suggests otherwise, my soft spot for people I love makes me see beyond that. It can be unhealthy when these people don't have a boundary but when they are also there for you and would do the same, it doesn't even matter.

    I struggle saying no to people I really love and care about. Even when logic suggests otherwise, my soft spot for people I love makes me see beyond that. It can be unhealthy when these people don’t have a boundary but when they are also there for you and would do the same, it doesn’t even matter.

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    Money is a unit of exchange, but it can also be much more or much less than that, depending on who is handling it. For some it is an investment, for others it is security, for others it is a storage of value, for many more it is a way to get by from one day to another. We may hold the same amount ofRead more

    Money is a unit of exchange, but it can also be much more or much less than that, depending on who is handling it. For some it is an investment, for others it is security, for others it is a storage of value, for many more it is a way to get by from one day to another. We may hold the same amount of money but the meaning we attach to it determines what it does for us in return.

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  13. Reporting to HR may not always work. You could start by reaching out to a close friend and seeking help from an outside aythoroty like the police or an organisation that specificaly deals with this. Making sure you have some evidence of the harassment is an added advantage, this could be an audio orRead more

    Reporting to HR may not always work. You could start by reaching out to a close friend and seeking help from an outside aythoroty like the police or an organisation that specificaly deals with this. Making sure you have some evidence of the harassment is an added advantage, this could be an audio or video recording or a reliable witness who will stand by you and their word. Find out if there’s another person going through the same and do a joint report. It is quite sad that after going through abuse you have to do all this just to protect yourself and your work. However there’s no work or employment that is worth abuse. You are better off without a job than in an abusive environment. With the recent cases of femicide and violence, your lufe could be at risk. The most drastic and safe move would be to up and leave though you’ll have to plan on how you to meet your needs after an abrupt loss of work.

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