If you’ve been through this situation and you’ve been hurt because you’ve read her flirtatious chats with other guy/ guys, what do you do?
Let’s add, in the middle of the night, and let’s also add, she’s lied to you that she’s slept at the time, and let’s also add, the chats go on for hours, well it’s very much legit being hurt.
For a girl to start diverting her energy elsewhere,then she must have been triggered by something be it emotionally,physically or mentally.When a girl loves a man ,she never has time/energy for flirting elsewhere.So change on your ways and who knows ,she might come back.
If a woman genuinely love you, she will not entertain other men unless you are not giving her the attention that she requires, Women love attention.
A girl who likes you cannot waste her time flirting with other men in your presence.if a woman start flirting out with other men she is clearly telling you that your masculine value has depreciated. So work on yourself
You should have a mature conversation with her about it. If it bothers you, let her know that you would want her to stop doing that.
Tell her you’re uncomfortable with her being too forward with guys as if she was single and she needs to treat the relationship like it matters and she is not trying to lose it.