Well, here we are, new month, new plans..what has been on most people’s minds is the famous cupid’s day that is just a shy 2 weeks away…what are your opinions, should men take their valentines out, grab coffee maybe, buy ...
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Those who say that,” don’t let love be the basis of your foundation since when it ends it will require an initial friendship” forget that love is also in friendship..It’s the only thing that holds any relationship… So should we ...
What reasonable percentage of financial responsibility should married women bare if the couples are making almost the same salary at end of the month?
Do we know why we get into relationships? Is it loneliness? trend?, physical attraction? Sex? Or connection? What more do you know?
Red flags appear as attractive lights when in the honeymoon or infatuation phase of a relationship and your partner appears perfect. How do you snap out of that love cloud and identify disrespect?
There are different ways you can show/gain/lose respect. Should respect be earned or is it deserved and should be given freely unless someone gives you a reason not to?
Respect in a relationship can mean accepting someone regardless of misunderstandings or differences. New couples have this sense of honour and importance that they show each other. When time goes by, this fades away and the “true colours” of your friend ...
I am just thinking out loud. Anytime I have tough feelings, I use music to escape and eventually deal with them. For people who don’t write, how do you deal with loneliness? Lonely is an Afro-ElectroPop song that has an uplifting ...
Most relationships end because of cheating, loss of interest, settling, work and other daily distractions that can take your attention away from nurturing and maintaining the relationship. Apart from the generally accepted red flags and deal breakers, what’s that one petty ...
To me, marriage is a Union but looking at the trend of marriages today it is a culture, why when u ask me? I will say that’s what peoples do.
I bet we all have heard the question ‘When are getting married?” How does this make you feel
Which kind of men & women must you avoid dating?
First up by ‘work’ I mean a relationship that does not end in one’s lifetime (unless of course a partner dies). It doesn’t have to mean marriage or the conventional ways 2 people are expected to stay as a ...
Many people choose to continue staying with their abusive partners and undergo intimate partner violence silently,are there reasons as to why this happens?
Covid-19 has taught we that women are constantly looking for upgrade. This is usually well hidden but if I was keen enough, I would’ve seen it in her “list” when we first met. Like things she wanted in a man. This ...
More often than not, we like wearing a thick layer and a beauty lie over our insecurities but it still blows up in our faces! These insecurities could be fashioned and modelled by those we relate with, be it family, ...
If you’re feeling major cold feet, that could be a sign that you not be ready for marriage. Couple can have different degrees of readiness when it comes to marriage but when that difference is too much, that is a ...
The TURF: We of Biological Clock and Financial Clock Determiner Vs The Contra! Dear You, This ain’t an epistolary letter to Juliet nor Romeo but an open letter to address the Social dictates of what marks the onset of the ...
There has been ever growing disputes on Matrimonial Property during divorce and even sharing of the same afterwards – succession.Kenyan’s Matrimonial Propert Act introduced the concept of Prenuptial Agreement where prospective husband and prospective wife would get into an agreement ...
I really need honest responses and if possible your own relationship experiences. I knew a man since we were in college. After we continued to be friends but we always had some chemistry and we ‘liked’ each other. I thought he was ...